Before You Split: Find What You Really Want for the Future of Your Marriage, Paperback

"Toni Nieuwhof is the guide you've been waiting for. Deeply wise, genuinely empathetic, and uncommonly insightful, Toni is a fresh voice with tried and true experience that offers a proven roadmap."--Ann Voskamp, New York Times bestselling author of The Broken Way and One Thousand Gifts

If you've ever wanted to say, "I can't do this anymore!" out of frustration with your marriage, you're definitely not alone.

In this practical and insightful guide, former divorce attorney Toni Nieuwhof shows that even if you feel disconnected or stuck in your troubled marriage--and worry about its impact on your kids--there is a way forward.

Before You Split helps you find what you really want from your marriage and how to move forward to a better future by:
- seeing yourself and your spouse more clearly
- dealing with unrealistic expectations
- empowering you with constructive ways to respond to difficult emotions
- engaging the power of forgiveness
- increasing your peacemaking skills
- advancing your journey of personal growth

Even if it feels like it's over, it's not too late. Change takes place one step at a time. Before You Split will help you make choices with your eyes wide open.

About author(s):Toni Nieuwhof is a family law mediator and former divorce attorney. She is the wife of Carey Nieuwhof, who is an influential leadership author, podcast host, and international speaker. Toni and Carey often speak publicly about their marriage of more than three decades. In her downtime, Toni enjoys outdoor sports and spending time with Carey, their two grown sons, and their extended family and friends.